Fearlessness is bullshit.

Yup, I said it. 

I think Arianna Huffington, Gary Vee and countless others who claim that success in work and life comes from being fearless are DEAD WRONG

The key to being, doing and having all you want doesn't lie in crushing your fears.

The key to success is learning to choose courage in the face of them. EVERY TIME.

A determined, courageous woman is an unstoppable woman and, now more than ever before, the world needs us to be exactly that woman.

If that sounds like you and you are 100% done with being your own biggest obstacle, you have landed in the right place!

I see you, sister.
Ambitious. Driven. Fiery. Outspoken.

You have a big message to share with the world and you are passionate as hell about causing the kind of change that dismantles the norms that serve the chosen few, and allows the world to heal and expand to serve the greater good.

You, my new friend, are a Disruptor.

Like me, you look around these days and see evidence in every area of life and business that it is time for women like us to rise up and answer the stirring in our souls to get to work being the powerful change agents we are called to be.

To stand up and use our values and voices and vision to create big, bold change in the world. To take the first step on the Hero’s Journey.

And we are the heroes we have been waiting for.

You know you are meant to shine your light but your inner world holds you back from speaking your truth and being seen standing in all your glorious truth and power.

How many times have you been told:

“Sit down/be quiet/go away. You’re just too much.”

“You’re too opinionated/outspoken/bossy."

“You’re a bitch/troublemaker/ballbuster."

You can only hear those things so many times before some part of you begins to believe it.

Leaving you with inner voices that create fear, worry, self-doubt, anxiety, overwhelm, and, eventually, burnout.

Truth be told, being a Disruptor is not for the faint of heart.

In order to do this kind of work, we need to know we are unstoppable despite of all our obstacles, and we require a strong community that holds space for our journey and acts as a safe harbor for us to return to.

When a strong woman shines, her sisters build the confidence to do the same.

And when we all shine? Everyone wins.

So how about today we agree on a few things.

You’re not too much.

You don’t have to do this alone.

You’re being called to rise up and shine.

The time is NOW.

And I am here to help you do just that.

Ready to find out how? Click HERE.

Take a deep breath, love.
Nothing is wrong with you.

You aren’t broken or a victim or weak or inadequate.
You are not too young, too old, too novice, too fat or too "much".
You are exactly who and where you need to be.

The only thing you have not learned how to do yet is


Once your conscious mind, subconscious mind and brain are all on board with your passion and mission?

You’re GOLDEN.

So how about today we agree on one thing.
You’ve struggled enough.
You’ve suffered enough.
You’ve tried and hoped and begged and prayed enough.
It’s time to let it all be much easier.
And I am here to help you do just that.

Ready to find out how?

About Me

Hey there I’m Kelly.
Jersey girl living in the South.
Seasoned psychotherapist turned Speaker, Mentor and Coach
Feminist. Advocate for the Underserved. Hardcore Introvert.
Obsessed with all things chocolate, red wine and the beach.
Teaching women how to relentlessly shine without apology is my mission.

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"This woman, Kelly Sullivan Ruta, has changed my life.
I don’t use those words lightly...
Hiring Kelly was one of the most powerful decisions I’ve made in my 4 years as an entrepreneur. I’m so grateful for the work we’ve been doing and are continuing to do together.

Kelly is not like other “coaches.”
Kelly is on another level.
Kelly brings her clients to another level.
You know how they say “happiness is an inside game?”
Kelly is the coach you want leading the team for that game.

I DON’T EVEN WANT TO SHARE HER BECAUSE #MINE, but I think everyone needs a little Kelly Ruta in their life." 

- Jamie Jensen

"When the would've, should've, and could've thoughts in your own head get too loud, Kelly helps you bust through your own bullshit. Like a mindset ninja. Now I'm fearlessly stepping into my authentic leadership and every pivot along the way has become even more aligned with my purpose and vision." 

- Amanda Bond
CEO, The Ad Strategist

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Audrey Faust

“This program was the most amazing investment in myself. I came into the program because I needed confidence in myself and to believe in my value and received that and so much more.  I am a new improved person who not only completely believes in herself but is now fearless. That was the bonus.

Kelly helped me pinpoint my fears about being visible and completely overcome them. I have absolutely no fear around being visible, which wasn’t even why I joined but was a surprise bonus I never thought possible. I now have the mindset that I can literally do anything and overcome any fear. I am now the 2.0 version of myself, new and improved. Advice, show up always and do the work and it will work for you too!”

- Audrey Faust

"Well behaved women seldom make history." -Laurel Thatcher Ulrich